“Done To” VS. “Doing”

  Hello, all. Let’s talk about the “power of responsibility“. A couple weeks ago I was working with a client who was feeling disempowered by a situation at work where he found himself competing with a co-worker.  He had been working at his company longer and was more senior to the co-worker and yet, he felt that the co-worker was …

What’s Your “Happy-when”?

THE ENDLESS CYCLE OF “HAPPY WHENING”   Have you ever heard (or even SAID) this… “I’ll be happy when I (fill in the blank)” Recently, I’ve been noticing a lot of “Happy Whening” with my clients – and I’m wondering how it’s serving everyone . “Happy Whening” is when we convince ourselves that our unhappiness is caused by us not …